Separation or Divorce

Dedicated to helping women understand the layered stories of their lives.

Sometimes, try as we might, we discover we can’t get what we want out of our relationships. That moment may come in an instant when you learn your partner has been unfaithful to you or has filed for divorce, or it can come after years of trying to “make it work” only to come to the slow and difficult realization that it simply doesn’t.

Ending your committed relationship is hard. Let’s talk about it.

You’re probably struggling with a variety of questions... 

  • What is wrong with me?

  • How am I going to pick up the pieces?

  • What about our mutual friends?

  • Will I ever find love again?

There is fear around settling for something less, fear of not looking good in other's eyes, fear and anxiety from feeling like a fraud, a failure. Fear in trusting our own instincts. And then the anger comes, hot and heavy, anger at themselves, for not being or doing or becoming more aligned with themselves and at others for expecting or wanting them to be someone they don't wish to be.

Even if separating was your idea, you may still be bombarded with negative thoughts ... I'm not good enough, not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not capable enough, not loved enough, not loving enough, not living up to my expectations, not living up to their expectations, not successful enough...and on, and on, and on... ‘til we just say to ourselves "I am not enough.”

But you know that now begins your period of self-rediscovery. Now begins a search for authenticity, purpose and, of course, love. Love for self first, and then, others.

I would be honored to work with you as you go on this journey.

I want to help you feel more alive! More connected to yourself! I want to help you free yourself from the doubts, fears and confusion that you’re left with in the wake of this ended relationship. 

My work is all about coming alongside you, and inviting you to dwell in the possibilities of YOU.

If you’re ready for me to help you tell your story, I’m ready too. Contact me for a free initial consultation and let’s make space for YOU!