Getting more of what you want in relationships
I’m dedicated to helping women understand the layered stories of their lives.
Relationships should be give and take. So why do you feel like you’re doing all the giving and none of the taking?
Maybe you’re not telling your partner your whole, authentic story… You’re not comfortable and confident enough to fully open up to your partner. You stay guarded and closed off.
Maybe the challenges are simply a matter of communication - you may be surprised by how much more you get when you directly ask for it.
If that sounds familiar, that’s something we can work on together. Often times, we’ve been hurt in a relationship where we felt that we should be able to be vulnerable, to let our guard down and trust the other person, and it backfires on us. This makes us incredibly wary to ever let our guard down again.
Or perhaps, if you’re honest with yourself, you know you struggle to feel like enough - you know that the self love and acceptance just isn't there. You’re always questioning your self worth and comparing yourself to others. You can’t stop all your negative thoughts ... I'm not good enough, not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not capable enough, not loved enough, not loving enough, not living up to my expectations, not living up to their expectations, not successful enough...and on, and on, and on...til we just say to ourselves "I am not enough."
And so you let your partner take advantage of you and love you in a way that doesn’t really fill your needs.
And then the anger comes, hot and heavy, anger at yourself, for not being or doing or becoming more aligned with yourself and at your partner for not loving you enough or treating you better.
But you’re here because
you’re ready
to put an end to all that.
You want to feel more alive! To be more accepting of yourself, more confident in yourself, and to really love yourself! You want to be free of the doubts, fears and confusion that keep you feeling stuck, but wanting more. And with this new found confidence, you’re ready to get more of what you want in your relationships!
